Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Yeh Dilli hai mere yaar..

Dad being in defence services used to get tranferred every 2-3 years. Every transfer brought excitement to life as packing and unpacking was the best part about transfers. Yeah and there was a flip side too, having to lose all your friends. But well, that's not what I am gonna write about here.

I was 10 when I came to know that my dad was being transferred to Delhi. My happiness knew no bounds. This time there was a different kind of an excitement because we had to move to a city which had the biggest amusement park in the country, "Appu Ghar". Yes that was the only thing I was looking forward to.

Thus began our never ending train journey from Vishakhapatnam to New Delhi . I had no idea that Delhi was this far, it took 2 full days. So long it took that I was tempted to ask my mom if dad had gotten tranferred into the train...!!!

All excited about setting my foot on Sarzameen-e-Dilli, I got down from the train only to find that it was some random place called Hazrat Nizamuddin. I was like lets board the train again before it leaves... This isnt the place!!! But when I was told that this is where we were supposed to get off, I was utterly disappointed. I mean who wants to live in a place called Hazrat Nizamuddin after you have spent the last couple of weeks dreaming of living in New Delhi???

Stepping out of the station I was taken aback by the sheer scale of the city. Everything I set my eyes on seemed to be moving in its own way. Such was the hustle bustle of this city that I instantly fell in love with it. And finally it sunk in that we had moved to the capital and not to a random place.

I spent the first year of my life in Delhi living in Vasant Kunj. The now posh and upmarket locality was just a budding colony then. Rather a mere collection of discreet localities between Vasant Vihar and Mehrauli. Vasant Kunj was the place where neighbours hardly spoke to each other, let alone celebrate community Holis and Diwalis. We seemed isolated in that place. Qutub Minar and a fleeting glimpse of peacocks dancing in rain visible from my room window were the only things good about that place. School was about 10 KM from home and it seemed to be at the other end of the city. Missing the school bus was biggest fear as I used to leave home at 06:30 AM and in winter it was more of a pain. Winter was too cold and summer was the hottest I had ever experienced. The charm of Delhi was slowly fading away.

As I was growing up, the city grew around me too. Second year on, it was new place, new friends, and a new feel about the city. I slowly started to understand the dynamics of the city. Travelling in crowded public transport, shopping in markets where people fall over each other in festival season and even otherwise, having the awesome food that is available in abundance that you can die eating and still keep eating in your after-life, going through the widest and best of the roads in South Delhi, enjoying the cool breeze against your face in the evenings in summer, feeling the warm sun basking in winters, striking a conversation with absolute strangers, watching innumerable kites flying (around Independence day) which seem like colourful confetti falling from the sky, being awestruck by the sheer brilliance of the architecture (Rashtrapati Bhawan and the surrounding areas), circling the Connaught Circus by foot hundreds of times and I can go on and on about the city. All the stuff that I had hated about Delhi in the beginning , seeing them in a different light, made me fall in love with Delhi and every passing day I loved the city more.

I believe the city you grow up in has a major role to play in your development as a person. So I owe a lot to my being in Delhi for being the person I am. The city that gave me friends, the city that gave me memories to cherish, the city that I feel I am a part of, is the city that I call my Home.

Delhi turned out to be a lot more than just Appu Ghar. It became my home. It became a part of me as much as I am a part of it. I have been to and have lived in a lot of other cities but in the end I belong to where my heart belongs and that is Saddi Dilli.

Yeh Dilli hai mere yaar.. Bas Ishq Mohabbat Pyar...

14 comments:

Aryan said...

Lovely bit of text there. Wonderfully expressed and truly touching. I love reading such bit of TRUE to the heart experiences. And the way you have described your childhood days spent in the capital is something which really excites me to read on further. It has not made boring by including minute details.

Rather, you have touched almost every facet of your childhood life, and yet kept it so simple and very-very interesting. I loved this blog entry of yours! Although, my dad was also in the Indian Army, but we got posted in Delhi only about 4 odd years back. Hence, reading your experience of Delhi when you were young felt really heart-warming. Thanks for sharing. :)

Thanks,
-Aryan

Kartik said...

Thanks a lot Aryan!!! Appreciate you going thru the blog and appreciating it..
Inspires me to write more about stuff that people like to read about, i guess i can dig deeper for some other topics now..
thanks again mate!!

cheers,
Kartik

Sravanthi said...

Acha ta dost!

Like ur humor walla angle to almost anything u write or talk abt :) & yeah.. can connect with a lot of wht u said.. since i am experiencing a lot of tht NOW ;)

Continue with such snippets..!

- Srav

Kartik said...

thanks srav.. I know you have a similar feeling for hyderabad.. but this is how I feel about Delhi.. and am sure you must be liking it a lot more now..

as far as the humour is concerned.. ab main apni tareef kya karoon :P..

you guy reading n appreciating, will keep me going.. :)

- Kartik

Imran said...

Sweet n Nostalgic.
I was reading through and yet one more time I didnt want it to end. The way you laid out some simple experiences, make me connect instantaneously. Like eating till after life, fear of missing school run etc. I too have grown with this City and I am loving it ;)
Once again a great blog entry, keep it up Champ.

Kartik said...

Thanks man.. i know that you too have spent the same amount of time in Delhi, rather you have also spent the same phase of ur life in Delhi.. and u can connect with what I have written..
glad that you appreciate this one too :)

BANDHAV said...

This is for the very first time i am reading your blog, and i must say i loved it to the core.
Looking forward to more of your writings keep these coming.
Spandan

Kartik said...

Bandhav - Thanks a ton man.. have heard a lot about you, just havent got a chance to meet you (not virtually).. lets catch up sometime :)

K Belina said...

Awww.....it was so sweet.Agree with you on the fact that a city grows on you n I identify myself with some of those experiences. We fauji families make homes out of nowhere n fall in love with the place that we live. You have been lucky to have grown in one place...Dilli, if I can say so. Although S has seen many places, she seems to like this city. After having returned to the city after 12 yrs, I have had a mixed feeling about the place. Looking fwd to reading more stuff from you.

Ruchika said...

Hey.... I must say this a nice piece of blog... Beautifully written. :)

Kartik said...

thanks Ruchika.. :)
glad that u read and even more glad that u commented :)

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Sukhpreet said...

lovely post! it vividly describes what delhi is all about... it's culture, beauty, weather... everythin!

Bt you forgot smthin important... DELHI GIRLS!!! I suppose they are worth a mention.. especially in a guy's post... :)

Kartik said...

@Sukhpreet -

thanks a lot!!.. i appreciate u going thru my post n finding it good enough to comment :)

aur rahi Delhi Girls ki baat, I think a few lines wont be able to do any justice to them.. maybe a dedicated post soon.. ;)